“i feel like sex is about 75% brain/environment and 15% physical movement and 10% making sure your hair is out of your face. if you’re both in an ok mood, the lighting’s nice, no one has any overdue library books or car windows to roll up, and you can move your hand/mouth/hips, the sex will be good. it could be really good if you’d talk to each other about what you like/don’t like, or if you could do it on a pile of $100 bills, but, you know, either way! sex is good. you, too, are good at sex!
also if you imagine you’re in a sofia coppola film, that sometimes helps.”
laneia montague, on sex